Things have gotten so busy all of a sudden...

Ok, so last week was hectic, and this week will be even more hectic! Oh no....

Well, on Thursday, we took a tedious drive up to Nashville and that was kind of disastrous in terms of I didn't drive very well -- I sort of fell asleep, (but I'll never admit that to my parents! -- though they know...), and swerved. One time on the road we went to get gas, but we were at a stop sign. My mom decided that the time was right to go ahead into the ongoing traffic because there were no cars (technically). But then all of a sudden a really fast car zoomed down the road. We blocked it and slowed it down. Then we drove into the gas station and she followed us in, and then subsequently yelled at us for making her slow down -- I think her exact words were, 'THERE'S A STOP SIGN FOR A REASON!' But we didn't do anything wrong.

Friday was shopping/moving in day. So that's basically what we did. My room was surprisingly small the first time I saw it. The shock nearly killed me! But then we made it cozy and it looks strangely spacious. And everything fits in fine -- my record player, stereo, tv, vcr, and Super Nintendo. It's snazzy -- that's a weird word, if it is even a word! I saw Daniel, Charlie and Asmitha again so that made me very happy but sad at the same time. Because everybody will be so busy and Daniel is leaving.... and also I forgot to bring my tattoos to share with everybody...

Saturday came around, and my whole family moped around in the hotel room, taking intermittent naps while watching Rhythmic Gymnastics (so boring....). Sam came near the end of the day and I met his aunt and cousin. Then we sent them off, and I showed him around my room. He was impressed. Ha ha - I win!! And we went to dinner with my parents. Then my parents and I headed off to the grocery store to buy milk and other essential foods, though I have too much food in my fridge, which is always a problem when my parents drive me up.

Sunday was not really eventful. Well I guess Sam and I got hamburgers, so that made him very happy. Then we had a radio station meeting sometime, which made me nervous because talking in front of big crowds is not my thing. I can talk to one person at a time or even three or four, but over that, I can't do it. We had dinner with Charlie and Daniel, which was nice. And at the restaurant they gave me a heaping bowl of rice, which I could not really finish. Then Charlie showed us around his place, which was really nice, and he had a very large living room, which Sam rolled around on for 2 hours. We all watched the closing ceremonies. All I can do is shake my head. I don't even know what to think about London's performance. I mean it's difficult to compete with a Totalitarian regime (China is definitely not what it says it is), but you have to be more creative than dancing with umbrellas and getting Jimmy Page to show up. And Mr. Page's performance was quite funny -- he reminded me of a classmate in Kindergarten who tried to kiss all the girls but had really poor aim because he would just run around with his eyes closed and lips pursed. He was crazy. I really wonder what happened to him.

Then Monday was class time, which was very much less than enthused for me. And a meeting thrown in there... And something else happened, I'm not really sure... It is kind of dumb to start off school on a Monday, at least do it on a Wednesday.

So that about sums up my past activities for the last few days... I hope this week ends soon because there are too many things going on. Arg.

Awesome...

Temporary tattoos are awesome! I had almost an excessive amount of fun today with Danny and Steph.... So much fun. If only we hung out during the summer. I apologize about that. And tomorrow I get to see Kinal (and maybe my sister, I hope so)! Hooray!
I'm almost finished packing. Well I'm finished packing -- we just have to play tetris with all my boxes, stuffing all my junk into the back of the van.

And the Olympics are awesome but not awesome at the same time. Shame on you, China!

Oh yes, and Good Luck to Sam! He's awesome, too. And my sister is awesome too. That's five awesomes.

I'll write something more meaningful soon... I'm too excited to think!

Oh no....

Whoops, my bad. I haven't written a post in a while. Anyway, I just had a pretty bad weekend. My sister moved out from home and into Rice. It was really depressing. I can't believe she's already in college... and with BOYS! I'm so worried because I forgot to buy her mace/a switchblade.

Anyway, the first half of Saturday was stressful -- we circled around Rice at least 3 times trying to find the proper parking lot. Move-in only took 5 minutes. We met my sister's roommate, and had a lot of trouble lowering the beds.... Why is that so complex? Then there was a video camera at some point, and I was sweaty and self-conscious, which is a terrible combination. There was some lunch for students and families, and we sat next to two families -- our seats were rearranged by one of the moms at the table and awkward conversation ensued (VERY AWKWARD, as in we played a game of 'let-me-think-of-every-person-who-might-of-went-to-high school/middle school/college-with-you-and-you-tell-me-if-you-know-that-person-because-you-just-have-to-know-her!'). Let me tell you, I lost that game pretty badly. The lady was very disappointed that I revealed right away that I'm not the social butterfly I appear to be -- yeah, my baggy t-shirt, blank stares, and ripped up shoes tell you that instantly. So after that, there was some weird play by the orientation leaders. And we had to say our goodbyes, technically. But my sneaky parents and I stayed upstairs in my sister's room and set things up. She finally came up a couple hours later and then we really said our goodbyes.... And my dad kept worrying about her as we drove the twenty minutes back home. And that's (not really) the end of bad event number 1.

Event number 2 was not as bad, but still pretty bad. I had my laptop in repair because it sucks, and I have a warranty until 2010. And when I picked it up, ALL my music was gone. I did not even think to back up all my music files. When the employee told me that windows had been reinstalled, I felt faint and a little dizzy. Then I cried a little in the parking lot. After more than 5 years of collecting all that music. I HAVE NOTHING TO LISTEN TO NOW! But it's ok... (NOT REALLY)! And then I realized I got two very easy questions wrong on the MCAT -- birds are not related to bats....!!!! I'm so dumb.

And I can't understand why I really want to type in words a different way than they are actually spelled. For instance, I have to change phresh into fresh, tyme into time, etc... Why is that!?

And I miss all my friends... I wish I could see them all again next semester, but they aren't going to be there...!!!!!!

Wow, ok, so that concludes a very dramatic/immature post. I'll try to refrain from expressing my childish emotions next time....

The start of my summer!

Dear You-Know-Who,

I beat you! Kind of... We'll see in a month. Until then, I'll just try not to cry every night... FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE. But onto better things....

Sincerely,
Becky
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In other news, I only have 5 days to cram my whole summer, which means hanging out with Kinal & Danny, Steph, Kavita, and anybody else who wants to hang out w/a loser like me like nobody's business as well as help my sister move in, pack up for Nashville, go shopping for random necessities, buy textbooks, get radio station stuff ready, plan a party for the freshmen, finish the Fountainhead, and applications. oh boy...

Call me if you're free!

Weird!

Wow, I just woke up from a weird dream. Yes, I know it's only 11:45. How in the world did I take an hour nap after only being awake for only 2 hours? I don't know -- I guess this summer has been a little exhausting, and I'm halfway through the Fountainhead, which is a little hefty at times. Anyway.... back to the main point of this entry....

I dreamt I was a sculptor, and my goal in life was to make a minuscule sculpture of a squid. So that is all I did.... At the point of the dream, I guess I had been working on it for most of my life -- my hands were stained with clay, and it was even under my fingernails, which I usually keep short. And the sculptures I made were not very successful -- there were a lot of little squids on the floor with all their tentacles laying around with half-made or squished heads. So I went to an old man and asked him why the goal of my life, making a tiny clay squid, was not working. And he gave me a something that looked like a play-doh machine, like one of the ones you squish out different shapes like stars. So I went back to my apartment, which was really gross -- it was just one room with everything on the ground. It was just an ugly, lifeless gray. Anyway, I put the machine on the table and worked on my current squid. After I finished for the day, I put it on top of a pot of soil because there was no where else to put it. I went to sleep, and the next morning it had grown with some of the tentacles firmly planted into the soil. Then the machine, which had grown squid overnight on top of it (whaaa..?), started making these weird roses of different colors. I picked up a rose and threw it down into a bucket, I guess I was looking for the right color. And then I woke up...

It was weird.

what I have come to terms with...

(Part 3: Beatles Covers)
Ok, so that's kind of a lie. Most of them bother me a lot -- particularly at the moment, the Target commercial with that awful pun, 'Hello, Good buy.' Before it was that Across the Universe TV Ad and that hotel commercial with 'With a Little Help from My Friends'. Maybe it's just the Beatles songs for commercial use. I don't know. Still I'm sure several songs have suffered through rounds of American Idol. I don't even want to think about that....

Just don't do it, or at least just do it for yourself!

The Plight of the Yellowjacket

Oh Lord, how I despise insects, whether they attack from the air, with stealth, or if their intentions are not even to harm a human being. They still scare me -- all of them, except for lady bugs because their name suggests something quite gentle, and they are usually (if they decide not to excrete on you).

My territory had already been established -- legs curled comfortably on the swivel chair, eyes focused on the glowing screen, and mouth slightly agape. How dare it! The buzzing ripped through the air particles and crawled into the canals of my ears. Neurons shot through my brain. The chemical message tingled down my spine and straightened my vertebrae from its usual slouch.

I panicked -- it's an uncontrolled sense of fear. And during those times, plausible thoughts of what would happen aren't the first images that shoot through my imagination. All I saw were attacks from a giant wasp's behind -- one that matched the booming buzz I had heard with venom shooting out like some obscene Dali painting. I ran away! and closed the office door! The possible occurrence of such violence was too much for my sensitive nerves and knowing that it could not hunt me down in the other rooms of the house was a sort of relief. I could finally move on with the rest of my lazy day.

I left it alone for several hours before I had any courage to look through the glass doors, which I had encased it in. I did not see anything or hear anything. Strange, I thought, perhaps it did escape, and I've been going on, ignorantly assuming that I had outsmarted the wasp. So with my muscles tense, I entered the room to double check.

But there it laid -- its body darkened by sudden stillness. What killed it, I don't know. Maybe its erratic flight around the room was its death rattle. But surely it was never to be a vibrant yellow again -- death had taken even its color. I felt guilty, though it was odd that I have never felt this sort of remorse when I would hunt down a wayward fly. Perhaps the wasp in my mind had a more nobler intent than the fly, and I had killed it and interrupted its duties to its own family.

But fear is primal. It is not something a conscious mind can sort out within those few moments of sensing an unwanted presence or situation. I don't think I can say that if I encountered another wasp that I would not act the same way. But maybe I'll think twice before swatting at a fly or stepping on a spider.

Strange Weekend

Jeez, this weekend has been quite eventful. First John Edward's big confession, then the erupting war in Georgia, the death of Bernie Mac, the bus crash near Houston, the stabbing and death of an American tourist in Beijing, the death of Isaac Hayes, the bombing in Xinhua, etc... Is this normal? It's so strange that everything happens all at once. Does it ever seem like bad events are concentrated into one week? Maybe it's just me (probably).

So whenever I am sad (like during this weekend), I always like to peruse Francis Bacon's works. I don't know why -- it just makes me feel better. Maybe because it feels a bit cathartic for me -- his paintings just reminds me how tortured he was during his life. It comes off the canvas very raw and intense. I guess I like to know that I'm not alone in feeling so sad a lot of the time, but I have no reason to justify this sort of depression, unlike Bacon, who suffered most of his life -- with his health, sexuality, etc... This one is my favorite: Bacon's "Triptych - August 1972"

Anyway, the Olympics were pretty exciting today -- I watched weightlifting (wow, those women are very strong, but that event is kind of scary to watch because their eyes are so intense and their veins pop out of their necks), some swimming, basketball this morning, gymnastics (all the girls have such muscular thighs....), but I missed synchronized swimming (!!!) because I was at the gym -- SUCKS!

OH YES! I almost forgot! HAPPY BIRTHDAY to Asmitha and Bethany! They are two awesome ladies.

Summer Music!

So my laptop is getting fixed right now, and it has been in repair for a while now. It was really strange because it gets really hot, so I can't really use it on my lap anymore. It hurts. Anyway, I think I might write an entry about the Olympics later... (Yeah it was ridiculous. I was dumb enough to watch it for 4 hours when I could have turned on the TV this morning and seen a 5 minute recap of it! What! Oh, and did anybody notice that the kid walking next to Yao Ming had an upside down flag of China?)

This summer has had a lot of really cool albums out:
1. Girl Talk: No Pause -- Girl Talk came out with "Feed the Animals" in June? Yes I'm pretty sure it was in June. Gregg Gillis did the same thing as Radiohead -- you can pay for the album on your own price and if you pay over $10 you get a physical copy in Sept. Do you want one? YES, YOU DO!

Anyway, I've been pretty obsessed with it. And it's really fun to pick out which songs he sampled. For example, 'No Pause' has Missy Elliott 's 'Work It' (duh!), Eminem, Run D.M.C., Spank Rock, that song from the MacAir commercial (Yael Naim), Public Enemy, Jimi Hendrix, etc... Girl Talk does have a talent in picking out the best parts of the songs and putting them together. It may not be the most original way to make music, but you can't really say it isn't creative! Greg Gillis pays a lot of attention to the small, almost unnoticeable details in pop songs.

2. Liz Phair: Fuck and Run -- Liz Phair 'Exile in Guyville' 15th anniversary Reissue! This is an old song from an old album when Liz Phair was fairly unknown and still considered indie/lo-fi, and before she did that god-awful "Why Can't I?" for that chick-flick movie (I don't remember, which one but I definitely do remember hearing that song and being incredibly shocked). Anyway, I should give credit to Sam for this song. He asked me to get it over a break a long long time ago, and it was pretty much my favorite song at the time. I finally got 'Exile in Guyville' at a Grimey's record sale for $5! I think this is probably still my favorite song from the album.

Exile from Guyville talks a lot about sex... and Liz Phair in an interview said,

I was pretty good in bed at that point from the point of view of what the guys wanted, but pretty bad in terms of my own enjoyment. And yes, that made me angry. But it was my own fault in some sense."

Yeah, it's a pretty raw album.

3. of Montreal: Id Engager -- Woohoo! of Montreal is coming out with a new album in October! It's called Skeletal Lamping. Anyway, I can't speak for the album because I just have this one track, but I'll let Kevin Barnes tell you about it:

i spend most of my time in a state of mild confusion and pensiveness. i imagine most people do too. this record is my attempt to bring all of my puzzling, contradicting, disturbing, humorous... fantasies, ruminations and observations to the surface, so that i can better dissect and understand their reason for being in my head. hence the title, Skeletal Lamping. Lamping is the name of a rather dreadful hunting technique where, hunters go into the forest at night, flood an area in light, then shoot, or capture, the animals as they panic and run from their hiding places. this album is my attempt at doing this to my proverbial skeletons. i haven't yet decided if i should shoot or just capture them though."

I'm not really that crazy about the track, but I'm sure the rest of the album will be too awesome for words.

Today was a terrible day for a few reasons:

1. I hate chance. After working so hard this summer, the standardized tests seem to be just based on luck (which I have none). It all adds up to the conditions of the day, the severity of the proctors, how I am personally feeling that day, how fast my heart beats before I walk into the room, and whether my ADD kicks in right away or a few hours into the test.

2. John Edwards had an affair -- after already being quite depressed by my Practice Test, I turn on the TV to find this all over the news. It's something I never understand or understood. Why would somebody have an affair? And I won't preach about love because I'm not an expert on that subject.

But John Edwards used to be somebody to look up to in this year's presidential race -- I thought he was a sincere man, who had a stable family and strong ideals. It was incredibly disappointing to hear about it, particularly because he also issued a statement that his wife's cancer was in remission while this whole affair happened. Though his wife and family knew about the affair, so I guess he is honest in that one sense (though he lied throughout his campaign). And what is even more despicable is that he told the press now, today August 8, 2008 -- the day the Olympics start. I guess he's hoping that the Olympics would wash away this news.

I think the whole issue of loyalty is something that has bothered me a lot, since middle school. I've found so many 'friends' who have simply tossed me aside for boys, grades, girls, the upper echelons of high school society, etc.. I'm in perpetual fear that all my friends will leave me at some point, whether by something I had done unintentionally or because I'm just the person that got in the way.

3. There's no more computer paper, and I drank all the tea. (Yes, little things bring me down.)

what I have come to terms with...

(Part 2: Facebook)
Oh boy, don't even get me started on Facebook -- "it's complicated" (ha, just kidding, that was kind of a bad joke). Recently I tried quitting the stupid thing; I mean, it's just a website, right? (No, it's not!) Oh, I hate it, but I'm afraid it has become a necessity. Communication is so easy because everybody is on it: high school friends, college friends, really old friends from elementary/middle school... For example, I tried calling an old friend ALL of last week, but we just ended playing a terrible game of phone-tag. But then I just messaged her on facebook, and it was that easy (we hung out, finally!). It's also nice because I have friends I never get to see (because Sugar Land is 880 miles away from Nashville, 1,900 from Boston, 1300 from Virginia, 263 away from Dallas, 1000 from Charlotte, 1000 from Kentucky, 1300 from Ohio, & 160 from Austin), and they have photo albums. I guess it's nice just to see a familiar face, even if it's on the internet.

I want to end this passive-aggressive relationship, but I just can't. So unfortunately, I have to take back my word. Of course, I think I'll use it a lot less, maybe I'll just use it to talk to people.

Oh, one more thing that is really scary about facebook (besides the potential stalking that could occur) -- I always dread checking the "Recently updated" friends list. It's a scary experience, especially when somebody goes from "In a relationship" to "Single" or "It's complicated". Because it's so sudden and I usually don't get an explanation (because keeping in touch is something I really need to work on), bad things run through my head, although I'm sure they really are rarely (actually never, I let my imagination run loose too often) true. For instance, I'll think, 'Oh no, what if her boyfriend tried to start a civil war in Mexico and didn't succeed! I bet that's a complicated situation,' or 'Maybe he found out that she had an extra toe or she had two stomachs. Ew that would be kind of gross. Would you gain weight faster if you had two stomachs?' or 'Perhaps she got pregnant and when she gave birth, it wasn't a human baby but a donkey or an octopus!' It was especially bad when a lot of my online friends were graduating -- things changed from 'In a relationship' to 'Single' or 'In a relationship' to 'Engaged'. Don't scare me like that!

P.S. Today is the worst morning program in the whole wide world. I don't know how many times they used the phrase, "Beijing Bling." Yes, Matt Lauer, ha.. ha..., if only I had your VAST knowledge of Generation X lexicon.

P.P.S. Watch the first video! Eli Sweet is suh-weet.

what I have come to terms with...

(Part 1: Body Image)
I have been trying to lose weight ever since I became conscious of my own body, which was late in comparison to other girls. My childhood was just spent with boys, and they never talked about it, so why would it ever have occurred to me? Though maybe I should have noticed when I was always stuck playing goalie because I was a little bigger. But I was pretty oblivious (because soccer was too much fun!). Anyway, middle school and high school was a nightmare, and I think some grotesque faces I encountered in the halls made me shy away from make-up, or at least it seemed unnecessary to distort one's countenance with bright blue and green. And I grew contemptuous of mini-skirts and tank-tops, though I didn't really understand or reason out why.

Back then, I think I was quite baffled -- how were the other girls in my class getting a lot of attention from boys, while I had a hard time making friends with those same boys, which was something that came easily in elementary school (I mean I didn't want a boyfriend at all when I was a teenager -- it was just something I noticed). But it was something that really bothered me. I guess I was just not conscious of the obvious: boys have EYES -- retina, corneas, lenses, and a brain to interpret those images and a sense of judgment to approve (strongly disapprove, or ignored, the latter two which applies to the me)! For some reason after high school, I became keen on salads (they tasted very good), and I got a new haircut because my sister was brave enough to ask -- so instead of my hair being tied back in an eternal pony tail, it was free to cross my shoulders and my forehead (it was awesome). I lost some weight (by accident), and I looked different. It was really weird.

So in college, I realized that this kind of weight loss was good -- I felt like I had joined the spectrum of human attractiveness, though on the low end (but at least I wasn't being ignored). Then I became obsessed with losing weight because it equated to such a good feeling -- I counted calories, exercised those consumed calories, walked everywhere, ate less, etc... I just wanted to be skinny like everybody else and paid attention to (because clearly my interests and personality would not draw you in). So I became sickly for awhile... weak in spirit and body. That was when my parents started to worry and that made me lift a loose fist in the air and claim my victory with a faint whimper: 'Hey! I'm finally skinny! Hoora---y!' So then I started eating more and gained weight and then became a little sad (again).

And here I am, trying to jog/step/elliptical/walk my weight gain away. At the beginning of June, my body upset me, and I could hardly run a mile without having to stop after 5 minutes. Through all these blisters, bruises and nasty toe nails, I've learned how to work hard for something and get some results (though I've been eating more, curse my mom's fantastic cooking!). But point is, I can run 3-4 miles now and feel pretty good after. I may not be as skinny or as attractive as I'd like to be, but I like feeling healthy -- I keep thinking that if I was in a situation where I had to run away from a bear, I'd definitely be able to stay alive for at least an extra 20 minutes. I guess that doesn't mean I'll stop obsessing over losing weight (because I think that becomes kind of an addiction), but at least, now I don't think I really mind if the world ignores me or labels me as unattractive -- I like my friends a lot: they all have something interesting to talk about. And I think I'm losing weight the right way and for the right reasons (well, sort of). I think towards the end of this summer I can say that I'm very happy or content at least, which is a sentiment I do not use lightly.

Sorry if this entry was not very coherent... There are still some things I need to sort out -- I mean the issue of my body has not been completely resolved, but it's getting there.

And I promise my future entries won't ramble as much.

my first post is today!

So this has to be the third or fourth blog. Maybe I'll try and keep this one up, unlike all the other (material) relationships I've had in my life -- this one is going to last (not likely), but we'll see. Oh I miss my piano, which I recklessly abandoned; my super nintendo, with whom I have tried to reconcile with by offering 'new' exciting games like uniracers and mortal kombat 3 or 2, I don't really remember which one; and my VCR player, which I have utterly taken for granted.

Anyway, today has been a strangely ordinary one, although there was a 'hurricane' (and what kind of a person would name a hurricane Dolly or Edouard, which I have such a hard time spelling). It took me 45 minutes to look up information on it because I couldn't type the name in correctly -- Google kept asking in bold italics, 'do you mean edward, stupid? or perhaps eduardo?' I know when the internet is laughing at me, which is often.

So after reading/watching 'life-threatening' information on the tropical storm, I ate some breakfast while watching the rain just trickle outside then read the Fountainhead... I read a lot of it (not in comparison to the book though, which is about 700 pages, just a lot for me because I read like a first grader). It was kind of intense, so I had to take a break. What Ayn Rand considers erotic is a bit strange, but I guess I can see why she wrote it like that. She is such a strange woman... but she has a smart haircut (I'm envious of her ability to wear a bob, and I guess her ability to write).

I think it's been enough sitting around for me. I have to get off my big butt and study or do something more productive than having my vision impaired by this computer screen...which reminds me -- I need to pick up my contacts, or else I'll be blind for the next 6 months.